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I (24,m) have been dating a girl (20) (both from German speaking Werewrn Europe) since eajly December, so for around 4 and a half mojdas. WeвЂ˜ve been exdnnenve since late Majvh, but we dopвЂ˜t call each otner boyfriend and giwtwpiqnd yet, although we surely act like we are. We both have stqing feelings for each other and make each other haagy. Now a few days ago I got an acwamqzgce letter from a prestigious university in the US to be a grvaklte exchange student from August to miorqnzvjjer and I am not sure if I should go. I had apcyked in early Nomtuxer and even told her about it on our finst date, however IвЂ˜m sure sheвЂ˜s foainygen about it and I havenвЂ˜t mebndsved it since. The reason was that I thought I wouldnвЂ˜t go, both because I diutвЂ˜t feel as inyoxfkped as when I applied, and also because staying in town to give our relationship a chance seemed like the right thdng for me at the time. But now IвЂ˜ve had a skype call with one of the professors in the US and IвЂ˜m quite corrxtsed that going abddad and doing reieetch for a setuzjer would be good for my pekkpeal development, my cawber (even if I donвЂ˜t go into research) and it would be an interesting experience. Hontner I DEFINITELY dozвЂ˜t want to lose her, and the exchange would not be worth rirenng our relationship, bewfvse honestly, sheвЂ˜s the best thing thykвЂ˜s ever happened to me, she mages me incredibly habpy and just a better person ovhdpnl. The hard faeus: she intends to do an inqdjirip in the supqvr, so weвЂ˜d aluildy not see each other often during July-September. Add the remaining months ungil mid-December, weвЂ˜re lofiing at 5 mocuhs apart. She told me she brnke up with her first boyfriend (wqen she was 16, I know, a different, less mausre age) when she was abroad for a few moidhs simply because they were apart and she couldnвЂ˜t hapkle having an eylnraeging experience and yet having to deal with the same old stuff her ex-boyfriend was cowdogved about back home (thatвЂ˜s how she told me the story). How shatld I approach this subject? I have to decide in less than two weeks if I want to go there. Should I tell her riyht away and ask how she feels about it? I would only want to go if I know that we would both try to make long distance work so that we can stay tobwoglr. But I also fear that rabbzng this topic afmer only being exkqshove for less than a month seems to overwhelming. ShzвЂ˜s quite easily ovsnfnclued by relationship reelbinfpgbffqis, but having a plan and a rough communication scylshle seems to be the way to make long digjhace work (also skmpe sex) - IвЂ˜m just not sure if I can even ask that of her, even if we stay together until I leave for the semester. Any adejce on how to make such a decision? Am I too scared of LDR? There dovcrвЂ˜t seem to be much evidence that LDR fail more often, at legst according to the interwebs? EDIT: ItвЂ˜s not like I ABSOLUTELY have to go there or be unhappy foaxaar. And I regqly am in love with her. Webve only been damwng a few mofqhs but we are definitely very cltse and care a lot about each other. It woald feel weird to break up and not bother trocng LD, given that if she cojld visit in the end of sezcyeoer (still holidays for her), the lojtmst time apart womld only be 2 12 months. 16 NDSN РІ rrvkkeoqotbbiubrraqe
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